This Mummy commented that I have not been blogging about Pregnancy #2, which is entirely true. Why is that so? I’d thought of several possible reasons:
(1) Less excitement seeing that I’ve gone through this before. I did not once refer to my well-thumbed copy of “What to Expect When You’re Expecting” this time around
(2) Less time to fuss over Pregnancy #2 when you’re spending all your time chasing after #1
(3) I’m physically and mentally more prepared this time around
You see, it’s not that I treasure Pregnancy #2 less (heavens, no!) but the feeling is different, somewhat, somehow. I know what to expect week-on-week, how the baby is progressing and the do’s and don’ts. I’d recently had a laugh with my ob-gyn about how I would wait for 30mins to see him for 3mins, simply because I didn’t have any questions for him!
In addition, I thank God that this has been an uneventful pregnancy although I did go through 19 weeks worth of all-day sickness and lost a whooping 5kgs, which also explains why I’m only 6kgs heavier than my pre-pregnancy weight but in actual fact, I’ve put on 11kgs thus far. I did not suffer abdominal itchiness, unlike my first, which my ob-gyn cheekily pointed out that my skin is “loose” already :P I did go through a bad case of insomnia, something which I did not experience previously but the usual backache and breathlessness are evident when I lie down. And also not forgetting the copious amount of durian consumed :)
My only worry is that I won’t be able to cope with a newborn and a 2yr old toddler, but let’s not worry about tomorrow for tomorrow has enough worries of it own.
7 comments:
hehe..yah i get what u mean bout the feeling...simply don't have the time for all sorts of worry. somemore got experience oredi we know what's best.
don't worry bout the handling part lah....super mom ;)
dont worry..when time come..you will be able to manage it...
Yeah.. don't worry abt the coping part. Your super powers will emerge when the time comes. ;)
tired isnt it? preg with first we have so much time to enjoy and think. the 2nd one...haha....pening with the first one all the time!
it's so true on what you are saying about pregnancy #2. I am having the same sentiments as you. Sometimes I feel quite 'guilty' towards the #2 as I didnt spend as much time worrying/caring/experiencing when I am having my #1.
Hey, think we should meet up lah..so long liao.
count me in...i'm having the same sentiments. Most of my time has been fully occupied by #1.
yeah.. totally agree... expected what to be expecting... no fun horr... haha!!
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